After all, if they will have a future together there will be plenty of sex for them ahead. He will want to know who she is, why she is and how she does things. She will feel searched out, women love a man showing interest. Her battles will become his battles, her joy his joy. He will ask hypothetical questions that suggest a husband and wife scenario, trying to pick her mind on what her desires about marriage and parenthood are. He will not take a loan to impress her or go into debt to win her.
What really turns women on and how men have got it complicated
It makes me hesitant in committing to him in terms of children and marriage. Recently two attractions left me reeling and lost in a fantasy of what could have been — these men had partners, so the attraction was not expected on their part either. I am not flirtatious, yet people seem to respond to something intangible I carry into a room. It's flattering, but I have never cheated on my other half.