Where to Find Sex in Indonesia The best places to meet girls and get laid fast are: What better way than using online dating sites where they can chat with foreign men without being seen? The most popular dating site that connects Indonesian women with foreign men is Indonesian Cupid. There are thousands of girls across the country who are interested in dating or hooking up. Those babes are hot for action and actively looking for a foreigner, either for a fling or long term relationship. Usually, during weekdays most of the girls are going to be freelancers, in the weekend your chance to score an office girl is much higher.